JarHead is subtitled Welcome to the Suck. I stood motionless while reading that phrase, thinking: now there's something I can relate to.
They should however, have spelled it suk. Suck is a verb; it's what you do with a straw. The word they want is suk, the noun. Everybody knows what suk means. We all go thru periods when life becomes, uh, "unpleasant".
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I've spent my fair share of time in the suk. Most people who've done time in the military become intimately familiar with it. I've noticed, the more time I spend in big suk (suk major) the less little suk (suk minor) bothers me.
Some people are better at dealing with the suk than others. The more suk you experience, the better you become at dealing with it. Some people spend so much time in the suk they actually learn to like it. It becomes their comfort zone.
I have since come to learn that the suk I experienced in the military was actually good suk, cuz afterwards, nothing seems to suk as bad. Irritating things that tend to annoy others don't seem to bother me nearly as much. When people get upset over seemingly insignificant things, I think, "They must not have experienced very much suk in their lives."
At Two Bunch, there exists no suk whatsoever. After much suk, it can take a few days (surprisingly enough) to feel comfortable in a sukless environment such as Two Bunch, which sucks the suk right out of you. It has a desukifying effect.
I think the healthiest people are those who can deal with, and operate effectively in, both the suk and the sukless, which requires plenty of experience with both worlds, appreciating each for its own unique & diverse aesthetics. So, whenever I see the suk coming, I say, "Bring it. Let's see what ya got this time."
Ralph Waldo Emerson said: "Bad times have a scientific value. These are occasions a good learner would not miss."
So yes, it is possible to enjoy the suk. The Dog is the best person I know at dealing with the suk, and making it look easy, and helping others get thru their own periods of major suk, by finding & pointing out the silver lining in even the sukiest of clouds.
As a veteran of the suk, I've learned the best way to deal with it is to stand your ground and welcome it. If you run from the suk (drugs, alcohol, etc.), it will eat you alive.
Paul said it this way: We exalt in tribulations, cuz it helps develop perseverance. And there's a guy who knows a little about the suk. The suk has a way of making spiritual people more spiritual, and (unfortunately) the bitter more bitter still.
Here's another suky lesson I learned: as a general rule, the worse the suk, the less staying power it has. So it's generally better to encounter major suk than minor suk.